the best reasons to make this year the year

One can only be optimistic for so long. Eventually, all of the cheerleading gets old and people tire of the motivational rhetoric that attempts to get them to live up to their potential. It all boils down to a will to do the right thing for the right reason.

I won’t try to sell you on a plan to get into shape in ’10 and I won’t badger you about spending more time praying. I realize that, with the exception of my wife, everyone who reads this does so voluntarily and I would prefer you not click out of this site right now. So I will just lay out a few ideas about the purpose of getting something done in the new year. I hope you find it helpful.

Life is short: none of us are promised another year. I lost some dear friends over the last year – too many of them too young. I had no idea at this time last year that they would leave the earth so soon. Young or old, your next breath could be your last. I say, take advantage of the time you have been allotted and get busy fulfilling your destiny.

You are a person of privilege: to be born in this time and place gives you a distinct advantage over most others who have ever been born. Your gifts, abilities, resources and support pretty much demand that you accomplish something significant. Otherwise, we may rightfully be accused of squandering the greatest opportunities in history.

If you don’t, who will? Most people are pretty self-absorbed these days. Heroes are rare and those with a focus on something other than their own comfort stand out in a crowd. The result of this is – the world is looking for someone who will do something to make the world a better place in which to live. I’m not comfortable with simply allowing the politicians or rock stars to handle it – I don’t think their motivations are always the purest. And I don’t see hoards of average people stepping up. Maybe you and I need to seize the opportunity…

Why else were you put on earth? Financial security, fashion, physical appearance, acceptance by others…these all don’t hold much water as they relate to real purpose. I have yet to talk to one dying person who is concerned about the TV show they are missing. You were born with an optimum function. It is in there. Dig it out and live it out.

You will give an account: OK here goes the preaching and the guilt trip. But it is true. Scripture says: “But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.” (Matthew 12:36), and “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may receive what is due him for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad.” (2 Corinthians 5:10) I will let God speak for Himself.

Finally, the need is urgent. Pain is not going away. People are hurting. And we have some answers.

So what about you in 2010? Will this be the year? I really hope so. And I mean that.

who is responsible for the future?

I have recently been exposed to an entire new crop of people who are reaping an ugly harvest as a result of the ugly seeds they have been planting. The crises that these people are experiencing are a result of the bad choices they have made. I don’t mean to be harsh, but rest assured, Justin Timberlake (first and last time I will quote him!) is correct when he says, “what goes around comes around”.

As we head into the new year, and as we are all hoping for some improvements over last year, I begin to ask questions like: “How responsible are we for what happened last year?”, “Are there things we can do now that will make the future better?” and “How long can we get away with blaming others for how our lives are turning out?”.

It is clear, God is sovereign, there are some things in which we have no voice. Life certainly happens, whether or not we like it. Good and bad things happen to good and bad people. But our culture has done an excellent job of convincing us that “it” is not our fault. “It” is the bad things that happen to all of us. “It” is when we aren’t happy or when we have trouble or when someone mistreats us. I am of the opinion that much of “it” is a result of decisions we have made. It is the law of reciprocity. In scripture, it is stated this way: “Don’t be misled—you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant.” (Galatians 6:7 NLT)

If you mistreat your loved ones, they will walk away from you.
If you are dishonest and lack integrity, people won’t trust you.
If you abuse substances, you will run short of money and will find yourself in pain.
If you neglect God and ignore His mandates, you will be destroyed by life.

Apply this truth where needed…

We are responsible for the direction of our lives. We certainly cannot dictate all of the details and how everything will turn out, but in general terms, planting good seeds results in a good harvest.

At the beginning of a new year and new century, what are you expecting to happen? What are you doing to make those things happen?

Let’s make a pact. Let’s agree to do the things that will allow us to celebrate one year from today. Let’s do everything we can to make 2010 a good year.

aggressive surrender

There are several generations of spiritual music that have included songs about surrendering to God. All my life, I have sung songs in church services like: “I Surrender All”, “Whatever it Takes”, “Lord I Give You my Heart”… My recollection is that in most cases, we sang but then just sat there. We were sincere but our music was not followed with action. The mentality seemed to be as long as we were saying the words, God would do the rest. We sang a nice melody but the words apparently were not heart-felt. It is as though we were saying, “Here I am God, I am available. If you want anything from me, let me know. Otherwise, I am going on with my life.”

It feels so spiritual to tell God how committed we are. Some leaders encourage people to make verbal commitments. At times, our worship services have, as a goal, an emotional response to the call of God to surrender to His will. We have glamorized verbal assent but under emphasized active submission.

How about if we begin to emphasize aggressive surrender? This is the concept of engaging in meaningful activity that expresses how surrendered we are. It is not words, it is action.

It is great to tell God that we are willing to do anything He wants, it is better to actually do something for Him. James said, “I will show you my faith by what I do.” (James 2:18)

If you are person of faith, go serve – somewhere, anywhere.
Give a day volunteering at your church.
Visit residents at a nearby nursing home.
Give a hand to a single parent.
Cut some grass, shovel some snow, clean some windows, serve a meal. There are a million ideas.
In fact, every place that there is a need, there is an opportunity for aggressive surrender.

When more of these needs are met, maybe I will feel like singing more of the “I’ll do anything you want me to do, God” songs.

family time

Letha and I are in St. Louis, visiting her family for Christmas. We are taking a couple of days off and enjoying some down time. I am still unwinding from the busy Christmas season at Maranatha - it always takes me a few days to settle back.

This does not seem like Saturday. My normal regime is full mode preparation for Sunday. Since I am not speaking tomorrow (a rare treat for the folks at Maranatha!), I am not focused on Sunday services.

I am working some this week. I have a couple of projects that are on the front burner. Right after the new year, I am facilitating a leadership conference for The Sanctuary Church in Deland, Florida - there is much to do on that one. I also want to read Brennan Manning's book, "Ruthless Trust" this week. Then there is the ongoing Rosetta Stone work.

It is cold here. The myth about one's blood thinning when continually in a warm climate is true. I am going to hike a local trail this morning and since it is 26 degrees, I will probably freeze.

I hope you are able to rest a bit this week. I also hope you are getting ready for a great New Year celebration.

a Christmas blessing

The following blessing will be spoken over the people who attend Christmas Eve services at Maranatha Church tonight.

I pray that you and those you love will experience, first-hand, the awesome love of God the Father this Christmas.
I pray that your spirit and soul will be overwhelmed by the Holy Spirit Himself.
I pray that the Light of the World, Jesus Christ, will shine upon you and in you and through you.
And I pray that Christmas, 2009, will be the most blessed Christmas you have ever experienced.
In the name of the One we live to celebrate, Jesus Christ!

“lit up” at Christmas Eve worship

As I prep to go into our two Christmas Eve services tomorrow, I am hoping and praying for a lot of people to attend. This is one of the best opportunities of the year to present the love of Christ to people. All year we have been reaching out to our community and “making the love of God obvious”. Thousands of people in our neighborhood know we care about them. I am hoping that we will have the honor of leading more people to Christ during Christmas. Last year, we had a total of 683 people at the Christmas Eve service. I am sure that a good one half of them were not regular attenders of Maranatha. One of the dynamics of a service like that, where “regulars” are outnumbered by “guests”, is that it is easy to feel like a guest yourself. In every service, there is a vibe that dictates the feel and flow of things. I have been in services where, although I was leading the services, I felt like I was along for the ride. Not a good feeling for a pastor! I am reminded that we are all “guests” in His house. He really needs to dictate the atmosphere. When we allow that to happen, important things – the stuff of eternity- will happen.

I am praying that the people who come to the services who do not have a relationship with Christ will be open to the idea. It is my plan, as it is every time we have one of these events – to present a clear and concise Gospel, to let everyone know what this season is all about. I will do my best to tell them of the love of God. My question is: Who, if anyone, will respond favorably?

Honestly, many people who come to these services tomorrow night will have been drinking. They are on their way to or from dinner or their office party and it is common for people to come to Christmas Eve service half lit up. Let me state a couple of things right away: 1) It is better for them to attend drunk than to not attend at all. 2) At most services, I speak to someone who has been drinking, and I am OK with that. 3) If you only want sober people at your church, you will not reach the people in your community (and you may lose some current attenders). For the record, we have rarely had anyone disturb or get out of control. We have measures in place, just in case.

But this leads me to wonder about the spiritual decisions that may be made tomorrow night. If people are under the influence, are they capable of an appropriate response to God? I realize that the Holy Spirit can work in any heart, regardless of the mental state. But if alcohol causes some to be more emotional, (and it does), and if alcohol impairs our judgment (and it does), what can we expect?

I come to this conclusion:
I am not responsible for the outcome. I am simply to speak the truth of God’s Word in love and allow the Holy Spirit to do His work. If I am in any way judgmental of the people who attend or if I come across as though I am spiritually superior, I can forget the possibility of any positive response. Christmas Eve is simply a wonderful time to love people as they are. Isn’t that why Jesus came?

Just a few more observations about intoxicated people at Christmas Eve services:
• Our non-alcoholic communion wine will probably taste flat to some.
• We will probably need a restroom break in the middle of the services.
• Open flames and alcohol are not a great combination! We may need to do a sobriety test before giving them a lighted candle. Otherwise, “lit up” may take on more than one meaning!

Merry Christmas, everyone!

sorry dude, you lose!

I don’t normally like to give press to negativity. When someone does or says something that is completely ignorant, to spend time addressing it usually just gives credence to the person. In other words, they are receiving the attention they are craving. But I just couldn’t let this one pass without a mention.

Our receptionist received a call yesterday from a person who is not connected with our church. This guy was apparently in a hospital (OK, I feel sorry for him) and was reading through a newspaper. We recently received some good coverage about our Thanksgiving trip to Guatemala. You can read the story here. The guy calling was very upset that we had the nerve to help needy kids in a foreign country. He made the assumption that we were only helping kids in foreign countries and not the needy people in our country. He made the statement that we were encouraging immigration. He accused us of creating more problems than we are fixing. And he told us that our church can just go to hell. Well Merry Christmas to you, too!

Here is the thing: the world is full of crazies and this guy was just another in the long line. But I can’t help but get a little agitated when someone with nothing better to do than be a pain in the neck spends their time trying to discourage others who have better things to do. What kind of a miserable wretch lives life for that purpose?

To clear the record, we do give away a lot of support to needy people in our country. We are actively involved in addressing the needs of our community. We put clothes and shoes on North American kids, also. This holiday season, our church has fed more families in our neighborhood than at any time in our history. So let it be said, Maranatha cares about people everywhere.

And secondly, our efforts to help children in other countries is in no way a statement regarding our position on immigration. To assume so is to be very shallow. While I have some less than popular opinions about immigration, we are feeding hungry kids because if we don’t, they will starve. I don’t want to see kids getting diseases because they have no shoes to wear. The thought of a child being cold when I have too many clothes is not pleasant. That’s it, that is our motivation. Jesus told us to take care of them and we are.

Here is my favorite part: Scripture tells us that when something like this happens, you know you are doing the right thing. Matthew 5:11-12 “God blesses you when people mock you and persecute you and lie about you and say all sorts of evil things against you because you are my followers. 12 Be happy about it! Be very glad! For a great reward awaits you in heaven. And remember, the ancient prophets were persecuted in the same way.” (NLT) So this call was really good news. No ugly feedback means no life-change.

Sorry dude, you lose! One of the best things we have done this year to is to let people everywhere know that God loves them and so do we.

So, regardless of this guy’s wishes, I don’t think our entire church is going to hell. Some of us may, but it will have nothing to do with who we helped. It will have to do with our rejection of Jesus. And if that is the criterion by which we will all be judged, I think our friendly caller may be in a bit of trouble himself.

Merry Christmas, everyone!

Christmas Eve Services

We are excited about our annual Christmas Eve Candlelight and Communion services at Maranatha. Two services are planned, 5:00 and 6:30 PM. We had a huge crowd last year so you may want to arrive a little early. If you are regular attender, please consider coming to the 6:30 service because most of our guests will attend at 5:00 - we will need lots of extra room for them!

Please click on this link to send an e-invite to a friend.

our Christmas wish list(s)

Going into this year’s Christmas message series, Simply Christmas, we decided to provide the opportunity for people to submit prayer requests in the form of cards that were placed in a gift box on the stage. At some point in all of our holiday services, we included prayer time for the needs that were represented.

It is touching to read the cards that are placed in the box. I think partly because I have been trying to encourage people to be insightful when completing the cards and partly because there are lots of serious needs in our community, the “wishes” are pretty poignant. Of course, there are usual needs that are represented, but I am moved by the number of people who asked for the salvation of family members, for families to be healed, and for hope and peace in our troubled world.

I heard this morning about a few needs that have already been addressed by God. One man directly attributes to prayer the fact that he got a job one week after placing his request in the box. Another guy told me that a family he has been praying for was in our worship service this morning. These are only two examples of the things that are happening among us right now.

I am pretty excited to see and hear more stories. With the hundreds of cards and thousands of needs, this is a great opportunity for God to do some awesome things. I am continuing to pray for the needs. I believe that God will continue to answer and help His people that are in need.

Christmas is the season for miracles!

Simply Christmas 3

These are some of the notes I will use for tomorrow's message - part 3 of Simply Christmas at Maranatha Church.

Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord. (Luke 2:10-11 KJV)

Getting stoked about Christmas this time of year is one thing, but being impacted by Christmas all year long – now that’s difficult to attain!

The message of Christmas is so huge, it simply has to make a difference in our lives every day!
How do we keep Christmas beyond the few weeks surrounding the holiday?

An indicator of things to come:
Luke 2:34-35 Then Simeon blessed them, and he said to Mary, the baby’s mother, “This child is destined to cause many in Israel to fall, but he will be a joy to many others. He has been sent as a sign from God, but many will oppose him. 35 As a result, the deepest thoughts of many hearts will be revealed. And a sword will pierce your very soul.” (NLT)

The prophet was giving a hint as to what lies ahead for Jesus.
And it did not sound very promising, did it?

There is a declaration, made by angels, that identified Jesus with a particular title, with a responsibility.
A name that is given to no one else.

"Savior"

A Savior is Born:
Luke 2:8-12 And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. 9 An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. (NIV)

One of the same angel told Joseph (about Jesus)
Matthew 1:21 “He will save the people from their sins.”

Greek scholars use the word “sozo” (sode'-zo); to Deliverer. One who saves, protects, or makes whole.

Look at the specificity of God’s plan:
Galatians 4:4-5 But when the time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under law, 5 to redeem those under law, that we might receive the full rights of sons. (NIV)
“Redeem”: to buy up, ransom; to rescue from loss.

Where would all of this saving and redemption happen?
It would not happen while Jesus was a baby in the manger.
It would happen 33 years later.
Salvation and redemption would happen at the cross:

Matthew 20:28 “the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." (NIV)

Ephesians 1:7 “In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God's grace.” (NIV)


Here is why God gave Jesus the name and title which is above every other name:
Philippians 2:8-11 And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death- even death on a cross! 9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. (NIV)

What is the most appropriate symbol of Christmas?
I believe the greatest symbol of Christmas is the Cross.
The cross is vital to the story of the Gospel.

And here is the Gospel:
God sent his Son Jesus, born of a virgin.
He lived and loved and changed the world.
He died a gruesome death on the cross.
Jesus resurrected on the third day and came out of His grave.
Jesus is alive forever and now sits enthroned in heaven.
Jesus will one day come again to take His followers to be with Him in heaven.

Embracing the eternity of Christmas -
Cling to the eternal symbol of Christmas – the cross of Jesus Christ.
You will then be able to keep Christmas every day of your life.

considering goals for 2010

I learned from Jack Hayford that seasons changing and holidays and major calendar events are worth getting excited about and an excellent time to celebrate transitions. In 14 days we will start a new year, a new decade! The last time we did this, we were going into Y2K! Do you recall the panic, remember that fiasco? Hopefully we will do better this time around.

I think that the beginning of a new year is the best time to set goals. But as important as setting goals is the task of preparing ourselves to actually attain our goals. “How to” is a worthwhile conversation, considering that most people fail, and miserably, at fulfilling their goals for a new year.

Some questions to ask when considering goals for a new year:
What am I passionate about?
There are things that are passing whimsies and then there are things that drive our hearts to beat. Passion is required if you are going to fulfill a goal. Passive interest won’t survive the resistance that true goal setting must endure. Don’t bother setting a goal regarding something that is not very important to you.
How will the world (or my world) be different if I meet my goal(s)?
Does this thing I am considering actually have the power to change someone’s life? Is it too ambitious to expect deep results from a decision I make today? Life-altering goals are made by leaders every day. If it doesn’t change a life, it probably isn’t worth concerned yourself over.
Am I called by God to do this thing?
I like what my buddy, Travis Johnson said, “Sometimes, I hate hearing, "Let me pray about that." If God already told you to do it in Scripture, don't ask Him again. Just do it.” While this is true, there are times when God just nails you with the call to do something specific for His kingdom. When that happens, you just have to lose the excuse and get on with whatever God is telling you to do. Conversation over!
How will I feel in one year if I let go of this idea?
If you can sleep at night without fulfilling this goal…if you can look yourself in the mirror without guilt… if, in one year, you will be able to feel good about yourself if you DO NOT meet this goal, then I would say - let it go. It is not that important to you. But, if you can’t bear the thought looking toward 2011 with this goal unmet, you had better get cookin’!
What will I have to let go of in order to see this goal come to fruition?
If you are like most people, your life is plenty full already. If you are considering tackling any kind of substantial project or goal in the new year, you will probably need to prioritize. So, what will have to be sliced from your schedule in order to make this thing happen? Are you willing to do it?

I am in the process of doing some in-depth personal planning and goal setting and we are doing the same for the church. This is not so much an attempt at New Year resolutions. It is more an embracing of fresh opportunities and the optimism that comes with new beginnings. I don’t want to start 2010 without new vision and innovative ideas.

Some of the things I am working on for next year include a significant writing project. I am hoping to get away for a few days early in the year so I can focus without interruption. This may not happen but you can’t blame me for dreaming a little. I have been kicking around an idea for a book and it would be fun to put some thoughts on the computer. Here’s the thing, if I don’t take time to get away from my routine, it will be tough to make the project happen. My daily schedule is fairly full and cramming in a major effort like this would be overload.

Two additional goals I have for this year are the completion of the launch of our non-profit organization to benefit orphanages around the world and some major progress on my study of the Spanish language. These are both ongoing ventures but next year will include some big steps in the realization of these goals.

So what are planning for next year? If you plan nothing, I am pretty sure that’s exactly what you will accomplish.

Christmas can change the world

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The Top 10 Gifts You Shouldn’t Buy Your Wife This Christmas

I found this article humorous but I can just see some guys reading this saying, "oh know, it's too late, I already got my wife a membership to Weight Watchers!"

The Top 10 Gifts You Shouldn’t Buy Your Wife This Christmas
written by Laurie Wang, as seen on MenTodayOnline

OK, let’s be honest. Sometimes men are bad at choosing gifts. Your intentions are good, but pick the wrong gift and you send the wrong message. So before you go out and buy a present for your wife, girlfriend or whoever that lovely lady is in your life, be sure to read these gift no-no’s first.

10. Tools. Unless she’s a handywoman or she’s told you her great desire to take out the bathtub and build a new one, I’d save the wrenches for someone else—maybe yourself.

9. A vacuum. Any cleaning or kitchen appliance says, “Honey, clean the house for me.” Your wife or girlfriend wants to be the more than a housekeeper in your life.

8. A cookbook. “She has to cook all the time,” the rationale may go, “I’ll get her a cookbook!” But see the rationale for #9: She wants to be reminded how she is special and appreciated at Christmas time, not given more work to do.

7. Clothes. Now, some men are very good at buying clothes and they know the exact size of their woman. However, you must keep in mind that women are shaped very differently and sizes can vary depending on store. For example, I am a size 5 at one store and a size 7 at another, and I have shirts that are size small or large. To avoid complications, I suggest buying a gift certificate at your wife or girlfriend’s favorite mall.

6. Tickets to the monster truck rally. I have a feeling that I’m in the minority when it comes to women who enjoy monster truck rallies, so if I were you, I wouldn’t even bother lining up for tickets. And yes, this includes the car show, the motorcycle show, the boat show, NASCAR races…OK, you get my point.

5. Tires. Continuing the car theme, while your wife might need new tires for her car, she doesn’t necessarily want them as a Christmas gift. In fact, unless she’s a real greasemonkey or you’re buying her a completely new car, it’d be best to avoid car-related gifts entirely.

4. Computer equipment. There is a short list of tech gadgets, like an iPhone, that are a good gift. But whether it’s a new printer or a copy of Microsoft Office, Christmas just isn’t the time to buy hardware or software for your wife or girlfriend. Wait until you’re both doing your taxes.

3. Socks. Yes, socks are useful, but they’re just not the type of Christmas gift a woman is thrilled about. I don’t feel a need to explain further.

2. Fruitcake. Yes, Christmas fruitcakes last about 12 years, but that’s because nobody eats them. And neither will your wife.

1. Membership to a diet program. Maybe she’s told you that she’s always wanted to join one. Maybe she’s told you that she thinks she’s fat. Does that mean you think she’s not beautiful and won’t be until she loses weight? I sure hope not. But that’s exactly what a membership to a diet program says. Exercise videos have the same effect. Men, flee from the infomercials that convince you otherwise! I suggest giving her something that makes her feel special and loved. Be thoughtful about it, and don’t forget to tell her how beautiful you think she is this holiday season.

pray for a friend

A good friend of mine is going through a very difficult challenge right now. Today is a big day for him. Could you spare a moment to ask God to give him the strength and courage that he needs?

Thanks very much!

Update 13 hours later...

Thanks for praying! My friend came through a huge challenge with integrity and strength. If you pray, be encouraged, it really does work!

alone at Christmas

It sounds very sad doesn’t it? The idea of spending the holiday by oneself is probably not something that many people would sign up for. Christmas is family time, when we are supposed to be with the ones we love and care for. But what if being together is not an option? Or what if family togetherness is counter-productive to the purpose of the season?

I don’t think that aloneness at Christmas has to be a sad thing. What is sad is when families or friends get together and someone abuses alcohol to the point of making others miserable. It is sad when those who have been physically or emotionally abused all year by family members are forced, in the name of celebration, to be with their abusers. It is sad when people fight and squabble and inflict pain on others at Christmas. Some people may be better off being alone at Christmas.

Marketers have done an excellent job of painting an unrealistic picture of the perfect family; gathered around the fireplace, singing carols and opening gifts. This is the reality for only a select few. Many families suffer division and heartbreak during the holiday. My heart goes out to those whose families are dysfunctional. But I wouldn’t want anyone to think that this is fatal or that Christmas has to be a depressing time.

The truth is, you can’t control anyone but yourself. If your family chooses to act irresponsibly, you do not have to join them in the misery. You are encouraged to confront the wrong in your family and, if possible, bring about healing. But ultimately, some families just can't make it happen. If you find yourself facing a Christmas alone this year, don’t panic, you have time to do something about it.

There are lots of people who have to be away from family at Christmas. Work schedules, expensive travel and illness can prevent people from going to their family. Who are these people in your community? Elderly people in nursing homes are alone much of the time. Possibly you could reach out to someone in your neighborhood, a widow or widower, a single parent with a small child… the possibilities are endless.

Some may choose to be alone on Christmas and that is OK. Let’s not force our concept of a happy holiday celebration on others. Christmas can be a deeply and personal spiritual development process. Time spent reflecting on God and His Word, self-evaluation and challenge for a better new year can be very beneficial. Remember, solitude is one of the spiritual disciplines that often gets overlooked.

Don’t allow the prospects of a Christmas alone get you down.

While we may prefer to be with people we love, truly, we are never alone.

“Immanuel!” – God is with us!

season of giving

I don't recall a past Christmas when I have seen so much giving by so many people. Every place I go, I am hearing stories of generosity and goodwill. In the last few days, I have spoken with people who are adopting entire families who are hurting financially this year. I have talked to people who are feeding the homeless. A single woman we know is buying gifts for a young widow and her four kids. A wealthy individual we know gave thousands of dollars to a food pantry. An unemployed woman asked for the name of a family that she could help with gifts this Christmas. A guy from our church made a trip to the Philippines and left some much needed resources with the people there. I met a guy who was dressed as Santa who was involved in the Toys for Tots drive in our area - for the last three days, he has been making motorcycle runs and they have provided gifts for hundreds of kids. This is all just in the past couple of days.

Tomorrow, our Executive Pastor, J Simms is going to Nicaragua to take relief supplies to New Life Nicaragua, an awesome orphanage in Managua.

What is up with all of this benevolent activity? Basic reasoning would say that, when money is tight, we give less. But the Spirit of Christmas dictates something else. I think that this time of year brings out the best in most people, hopefully, this is the "real" us. Hope is being renewed in the hearts of many people.

The economy is in the tank but our hearts are in the right place. The love of God supersedes recession. With only 12 days left until Christmas, we can do a world of good and make a huge difference. I encourage you - give generously. Donate your time, your money, your care. It is the season of giving.

ministry to the homeless

I am very proud of the work my sister, Linda and her husband, Rob are doing with homeless people. They are spearheading a mission to feed the unfortunate people who find themselves without a home in which to live in their area. They cook food and deliver it, on site, to hungry individuals and families. These people live in a nearby park and depend on the kindness of others to meet their needs. Rob and Linda, along with some long-time friends, Gary and Charlene, do an excellent job showing the love of Christ to these people.

They shared with me today that, this time of year, several churches are delivering food to the homeless. I am reminded that homelessness is an issue beyond the holiday. Maybe we can all do something to help address this growing problem in our country and maybe 2010 will be a year of action. I like Bob Hope's quote here: "My idea of Christmas, whether old-fashioned or modern, is very simple: loving others. Come to think of it, why do we have to wait for Christmas to do that?"

Way to go, Linda and Rob and friends. We are proud of you! And we know that God is using you to make a huge difference!

downscaling Christmas

I found this article helpful, maybe you will, too.

Downscaling Christmas
If you're addicted to a holiday high that ends with you in the dumps, try these ideas.
Kimberly D. Malkogainnis


Start close to home

Get on your knees with your family, and covenant with God to simplify your life. Determine to glorify and worship your external Lord rather than the holiday myth of overworking yourself into exhaustion for a "perfect" Christmas season.

Ask family members which traditions they most want to continue, and ask them to give something in exchange. If your daughter craves homemade cookies, ask her to do the vacuuming or errands to free your time and energy to help her bake. If your family needs a decorated evergreen to make them feel jolly, ask them to take over; explain that your job will be taking snapshots or video of the activity. If they're too young to pitch in, you're fortunate, because you can start them off with simpler traditions.

Question the seemingly immutable. One year, my husband and I and our kids decided not to erect a tree. Instead, we created a small handmade nativity. It was the focus of our celebration that year, and we spent many evenings sipping cider and creating a life-like and heart-expanding scene. Several years later, we donated the project to our church, where it's displayed in the foyer at Christmastime.

Recognize other events throughout the year instead of focusing on "the big one" and all the things it's come to be. Instead of sending Christmas cards, recognize the significance of Easter or Thanksgiving. Mail your family newsletter on your wedding anniversary. Send faxes, emails, or electronic cards anytime just to remind someone that they're loved by you and God.

Instead of making the family portrait a holiday affair, take advantage of summertime reunions, a day at the water slides, a child's school program, or Sunday dinner. Take snapshots and enlarge one.
Reach out

If you're part of a group that usually exchanges gifts, talk to them about alternatives. Agree to exchange only photos, or a service such as babysitting. Suggest adopting a needy group, missionary, family, or charity instead of giving one another yet another thing that doesn't fit, won't last, or (worst of all) needs dusting.

Arrange to have your holiday parties at public places so you (and others in the group) don't have to prepare and clean up. Remember: the goal is simplicity. Fancier eateries mean more complicated, expensive plans and ensembles.

Combine purposes by making your party a gift-wrapping, cookie-baking, or decorating party. Go bowling, miniature golfing, or skating, and enjoy the getting-together instead of the preparation. Go caroling or put in a shift at a soup kitchen; then adjourn to a local coffeehouse for a warm up. Make a special effort to remember and include those who are experiencing their first holiday after losing a loved one.
Give simply

If you choose to give (and it is a choice), make it your goal to give at least one item that expresses Christ's love, whether in word or in deed. Increase your personal quota each year.

Spend the year collecting family recipes. Then distribute copies of the collection—or create a family birthday book or directory. Write a poem or story, or paint a picture especially for your spouse or your mother. Frame a child's finger painting masterpiece or finger prints for a grandparent.

If you normally do fall canning, do a couple of extra jars and set them aside to be used as Christmas gifts. Do the same with summer herbs: Make herbal vinegars or potpourri to give.

Don't be tempted to put something on your charge card and call it a gift. You don't really own anything you buy on time, and you can't give what doesn't belong to you.

Divide your list into paydays and purchase items throughout the year. Each time you shop, try to buy one gift—even a small gift certificate or prepaid phone card. Buy "out of season," for instance, a set of garden tools on summer clearance; slippers, gloves, mittens on winter closeout. Take advantage of fragrance sets that are popular around Mother's Day and Valentine's Day. Pick up extra certificates when you go out to dinner or the movies.

Buy from home-service companies like Avon or Tupperware that deliver to your home. Save time and postage by selecting and purchasing out-of-town gifts at chains that allow the recipient to pick up the gift at a location near them.

Give things to lessen someone else's holiday stress: a book of stamps, wrapping paper, gift bags, tree lights.

If you make gifts, mass-produce them. That is, give everyone a jar of home-canned apple jelly or a special bookmark. That way, you can buy supplies in quantity and focus on doing one thing well.

Pass along something of yours. Give your sister the Barbie doll you used to fight over. Maybe your friend collects thimbles, and you happen to possess a unique one.

Shop odd places: garage sales, antique and junk stores, bazaars. Pick up unusual items if you travel.

Don't wait for Christmas morning to open gifts. We open things that come in the mail whenever they arrive. If someone visits, we exchange and open gifts then. And we usually exchange everything else on Christmas Eve. This helps take our focus off the gift opening, and allows us several small, more meaningful exchanges. It's especially helpful for children who are easily overwhelmed by a flurry of paper and packages.

Make an effort to do kindnesses every day. Contribute regularly to a homeless shelter. Offer to babysit for a single parent. Visit a nursing home resident or shut-in neighbor who has no nearby family or friends. Help carry someone's packages or clean another's windshield of frost if you're physically able. When you see someone who's rushed, let him or her in line in front of you. Take a cup of cocoa to the crossing guard. Smile. Say something outrageous and unexpected like, "God bless you." Be open to opportunities—however brief—to share the gospel message.

The key to downscaling and de-stressing your holidays is having the right attitude. This isn't about the Grinch trying to steal Christmas. It's about a child of the King endeavoring to give others more of God, and give God more of you.

The first Christmas was a gathering of humble people and heavenly hosts whose greatest joy was simply to gaze upon the Savior of mankind. It helps me to remember that I need to clear away the clutter if the world is going to have a chance to see him still.

from Christianity Today

we may not be as broke as we think

As Christmas approaches, lots of people are lamenting the fact that there is little or no money to spend on gifts, parties or travel this year. I came across some stats from last year that may prove otherwise. Check this out:

In 2008, the U.S. Postal Service delivered an estimated 19 billion cards, letters, and packages between Thanksgiving and Christmas.

In December 2008, despite a devastatingly bad economy, the nation's department stores reported $28.2 billion in retail sales—14 percent of the overall sales for 2008.

An additional $24 billion was spent via electronic shopping or mail-order houses.

U.S. Christmas tree farmers reported $410 million in sales in 2008. To decorate those trees, over $470 million was spent to import decorations from China.

The value of U.S. toy imports from China between January and August 2009 totals $4.3 billion.

Maybe things are better than they appear. At least we can hope so. I am getting from this that it is time to look more closely at our priorities. While there is nothing wrong with buying decorations, we can't really say we are in poverty if we are spending millions to do so.

source: "Facts for Features: The 2009 Holiday Season," Census.gov (10-29-09)

check out this media coverage we received

A local newspaper included a story about our recent trip to Guatemala. I think they did a nice job with the story. See what you think: here

a proclamation!

This morning, I presented an "Official Christmas 2009 Proclamation" that went over pretty well. One friend ask me to include it on my blog, so here it is:


Whereby Christmas in recent years has become increasingly more stressful than Christmases of old.
And whereby the average person spends more money that they posses or can possibly hope to pay back in a timely fashion.
And whereby most people spend entirely too much time at the mall and in department stores.
And whereby the resulting guilt and pressure creates a variety of stresses on individuals and families.
Be it therefore resolved that we are reassuming control of Christmas!
Be it further resolved that we won’t succumb to the stress of the season!
We won’t fall into the trap of rushing around shopping, spending money we don’t have, buying gifts no one wants or needs.
Furthermore, we will refuse to allow this holy season to get ruined by Christmas stress.
We won’t get robbed of the simple joy of celebrating Jesus!
Be it stated that on this date, December 6, 2009, we resolve to take back Christmas from those who stole it from us.
We hereby declare that Christmas 2009 will be known as a Simple Christmas!

keeping Christmas simple

Our message series for Christmas ’09 at Maranatha Church is quite apropos. For most people, the holiday is incredibly pressure-filled and rather than singing “Silent Night” most of us want to join in the chorus singing, “Stressful Night(mare)!”

Simply Christmas

Sharon Hanby-Robie wrote a great little book called, A Simple Christmas: A Faith-filled Guide to a Meaningful And Stress-free Christmas. In it, she addresses a variety of ideas to help us stay focused on simplicity during the holidays. In the book, she gives these pointers:

-create traditions that reduce the holiday rush
-decide on simple themes for decorating the home
-come up with ideas for thoughtful gift-giving
-keep away the holiday blues
-experience love and goodwill by volunteering

"Some people spell Christmas as s-t-r-e-s-s, but these holy days are gifts from God through which we stay connected to family and friends," writes Hanby-Robie.

My favorite quote from the book: "Celebrating Christmas is simply a time to remember that the Babe in the manger was born only because he was sent by God the Father to fulfill a mission for us, mere mortals. However we choose to celebrate, our goal should simply be toward a mindfulness of this great miracle."

So, how can we, in practical terms, keep the holiday simple? I came across an article entitled “33 Ways to Keep Christmas Simple and Meaningful”, written by Victor Parachin which state the issue much more effectively that I ever could.
Enjoy his list:

1. Spend five minutes daily in silence. “Be still and know that I am God,” is the command of Psalms 46:10. Spending a mere five minutes a day in silence before God can bring you closer to the Spirit of Christ.
2. Plan ahead. Rather than operating on autopilot, doing the same thing year after year, be intentional. Gather your family and ask everyone what they really want to do and who will participate. A little planning can go a long way to reducing holiday stress.
3. Avoid debt. A major source of frustration is the accumulation of debt brought on by too much gift-buying. Resist the temptation to use a credit card unless you can totally pay off the debt in January. Rather than go into debt, keep gifts small and simple.
4. Claim the spirit of the Innkeeper. Be inspired by the one who opened his heart and stable to help Joseph and his pregnant wife, Mary (Luke 2:7). Like the innkeeper, help someone who is in a difficult place.
5. Feed Your Mind. Check into the background of some Christmas symbols- candles, evergreens, poinsettias, mistletoe and the advent wreath. You’ll be surprised at what you didn’t know about Christmas.
6. Organize yourself. Make a list of all the things you need to do. If it looks like too much, pare down the list to something more manageable.
7. Cultivate courtesy. Be courteous to sales personnel. Often they are tired and tense because of their long hours and impatient customers. Speak kindly to them.
8. Extend compassion to a stranger. Gladly let someone get ahead of you in a store line, especially if he or she looks frazzled. On a bus or subway, readily give up your seat to a person carrying packages.
9. Memorize scripture. Memorize verses connected with the birth of Christ. Two of my favorites are the words of Mary in Luke 1:46-47, “My soul glorifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.”, and the angels’ declaration, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, and goodwill toward men.” (2:14).
10. Just say “no”. You don’t have to accept every invitation. Say “no” to give yourself some down time.
11. Downsize your gift-giving. As the years go by, our gift list can grow and grow. Shrink your list to a size your budget and time can afford.
12. Start earlier in order to relax later. One man who loves to bake at holiday time said, “I begin baking right after Thanksgiving and into the first week of December. I freeze my delicacies and take them out later in the month for entertaining in my home or to give to friends and family. By doing some of the work earlier, I end up with more discretionary time at the height of the season. That has cut down on holiday stress.”
13. Exercise. A lot of frustration and potential weight gain during the holidays can be avoided by maintaining a regular exercise regimen.
14. Don’t become a slave. Rather than preparing your elaborate family meal all by yourself, ask for some help. By allowing others to pitch in, you make it more enjoyable.
15. Try new ways of sending Christmas greetings. You can save a lot of time and money by using Christmas postcards rather than the more expensive traditional cards. Consider sending this year’s Christmas newsletter and good wishes via email to those family and friends who have an Internet connection.
16. Send a card to someone who is incarcerated. Contact a prison chaplain to get a name and address. Let that person know you will be praying for him or her.
17. Light a prayer candle every day. In the privacy of your home, light a candle each evening. Whenever you see its flame, let it remind you to pray for someone in need.
18. Skip a meal. A few times in December, skip a meal. This simple fast will be a strong reminder what it feels like for many people who have to go without food.
19. Be considerate toward young children. Consider donating baby food, diapers, and clothing to a local organization which serves children and families in need.
20. Reflect on Philippians 4:4. This verse urges us to “rejoice in the Lord always.” Each day, pause to thank God for the blessings of that day.
21. Go vegetarian for one meal. In many countries around the world it is customary to have a meatless Christmas Eve dinner. This is done in honor of the animals that were likely present in the stable at Jesus’ birth. All of creation was blessed by Christ’s coming.
22. Practice patience. The holidays offer many opportunities to do this. Relax and be patient when the traffic is slow, the lines long, the service poor, or the clerk rude. Remember that “love is patient” (1 Corinthians 13:4).
23. Make amends. Reach out to someone who’s wronged you or someone you have offended. Jesus came to earth to bring forgiveness, so forgive others and receive their forgiveness.
24. Broaden your concept of “family”. Be inclusive at Christmas. Include in your family festivities and gatherings those who can’t be with their own families or who may not have a family to visit. Be especially sensitive to those who are single or single again.
25. Sing. It doesn’t matter whether you can carry a tune or not, when you hear a carol played on the car radio, sing along. When you’re in a mall and holiday music is played, hum along. Music is a tonic for a fatigued intellect and a stressed spirit.
26. Read about the original Santa Claus. Saint Nicholas was famous for helping the poor and reaching out to children. Visit a library and read about this remarkable man.
27. Pray for peace in the world. Sadly, many conflicts continue to rage around the globe. Focus on a country where there is war and regularly pray for peace to come.
28. Give a gift of money. Every Christmas one man gives a cash gift to three people who have been laid off from their jobs. He has done this for 20 years now, and therefore has brightened the lives of 60 families during the holidays.
29. Be cheerful. Be the first one to wish everyone you meet a hearty, “Merry Christmas!”
30. Help fight world hunger. During the holiday season when most of us tend to overeat, consider giving away 10 percent of your holiday budget to an agency which fights world hunger.
31. Pray for each person who sends you a Christmas card. Cards often contain news about the senders. That information is a good basis for prayer. Offer prayers of praise for those who report accomplishments and prayers of help for those dealing with illness and loss.
32. Read a Christmas poem. There are many wonderful poems written about this season. Find some in the library or on the Internet. Read and reflect on their message.
33. Remember that Christmas is not only a date but also a state of mind. Add meaning to your holiday celebration by keeping the spirit of Christmas alive all year long. Live by this wisdom from Mother Teresa: “It is Christmas every time you let God love others through you.”

An early Merry Christmas everybody! Let’s enjoy a very simple Christmas this year!

planning...

One of my favorite ministry responsibilities is planning for the future. Sometimes the past bores me and there are times when the present frustrates me. But tomorrow, now that’s a topic I can embrace! Every fall, we enter into a time of dreaming and praying and visualizing about what next year holds for us. Specifically this week, I am zeroing in on some outreach and mission ideas for Maranatha Church for 2010. My preaching schedule and message sequence is pretty much set for the new year. Our activities calendar is already full. Now I get to work on some things that really get my heart pumping.

Outreach and Missions
We are strategizing about ways we can make the love of God obvious in our community. Things have changed in our culture and what worked a few years ago is totally ineffective now. A fresh approach is necessary. The needs have evolved, so must our efforts to reach people. One of the things that is at the forefront of my mind is our motives. We must reach out to people with pure hearts, not with ulterior motives. I think people see right through our expressions of conditional love and concern. We have to love and serve people as Jesus did; No strings attached. We will serve them in an effort to show them God’s love, but if they do not respond the way that we would like, we will still love and serve them.

Our missions work will, as God allows, expand next year. We did great in ’09, but I have some goals that will take us well beyond what we accomplished in the past. I would like to expand in 3 areas: the number of people involved, the amount of money we give and the geographical areas we serve. It is all quite exciting!

Who knows what the new year and new decade will hold? Only God! My job is to hear His voice today and everyday in order to follow Him and help others.

I love planning for the future!

the perfect Christmas gift! (or name that pig!)

Letha and I have discovered the way to a stress-free Christmas. It is only December 1 and we have already decided what we will be buying for one another this year. We have decided on the perfect Christmas gift! And we want to let you in on it early. We made the decision to purchase (drum roll, please!) a brand new, state of the art Sus scrofa domesticus (a pig)! That’s right; we are procuring a swine for each other – kind of a mutual gift which expresses our deep and sincere love for one another.

I know what a couple of you are thinking … only a pig would buy a pig for his wife at Christmas. But hang on there; I’ve got some explaining to do. Assuming you would like a little more info…

At Christmas ’08, we decided to keep spending to a minimum. Since neither of us needed anything, we didn’t but gifts for each other. Some people may find this a little cold-hearted but we didn’t think so. It was quite liberating to avoid the pressure of having to buy something clever and original. We really enjoyed the simplicity of focusing our attention on more important things. And just in case any of you think that this is just my slacker way of getting out of buying something for Letha, just ask her, she agreed 100%!

Our approach this year will be a little different. Since we both already own more than we want and there are no needs in our lives for material things, we are looking beyond ourselves. Through some ongoing ministry projects we are involved in, we are aware of some other people who are in need this year. We are buying a pig (including all the accoutrements and accessories) for Casa Shalom orphanage in Guatemala. The leaders there are beginning to invest in ways that can reduce operational costs and make the home less dependent on outside support. They recently constructed a chicken farm and added a stall for a pig. They plan to raise the pig and, when it is fully grown, use it to feed the children at the home. So our gift to each other this year will feed some hungry kids. We are also checking into getting some chickens and possibly a cow for another organization.

I am not suggesting that you follow our lead on this one. This is a personal decision and I would really hate to be responsible for someone in your family being very disappointed on Christmas morning. If you are thinking about something similar, I suggest you discuss it thoroughly with the people in your life. Don’t surprise anyone with a pig under the tree. However, if you would like some creative gift ideas, check out The Heifer Project, Christmas of Compassion, The Moju Project, Bibles Unbound, and Compassion International.

Name that Pig!
I would like to give the pig a name and am open to suggestions. I am running a “name that pig” contest on facebook. The winner will receive (once again, drum roll, please) … the honor of naming the Christmas pig! And if you suggest the name Rick, I will unfriend you!